The end of the year is not only the date when people are taking advantage of their holidays or trying to achieve the remaining resolutions they have set, but it is also the date when you will receive wedding invitations from your closest people.

Surely, brides-to-be are busy preparing for their wedding before the wedding day arrives. It's not easy to prepare for a wedding, let alone face the days after.

Every happiness and tear in a marriage is a test that God presents so that each couple can face it with full maturity and rationality.

When you receive an invitation like this, you will definitely feel a sense of excitement – ​​'How wonderful it would be to be able to experience the world of marriage.'

In fact, there are many other feelings that will be present in you, such as being happy for your friends or for those who are not married, you will definitely hope that happy moment will soon be present in your life.

Actually, that feeling comes because you are exposed to the surrounding situation when many people have started getting married and also when your parents or family start asking about your turn.

Therefore, don't rush into a relationship and start looking for a soulmate or force your partner to get married right away when you yourself are not sure whether you are ready or not.

Being prepared is not only about your mental health, but also about finances before and after marriage, acceptance from both parties' families, and so on.

Marriage itself is a new phase in a person's life. If you look at television dramas, everything that is highlighted is beautiful and fine, whereas in marriage there are definitely ups and downs.

When you see a couple who shows off their happiness on social media, it doesn't mean they don't have problems and disagreements, but they choose to resolve them amicably and not highlight their partner's faults. Anyone wants to share their sadness, right? Everyone definitely wants to share their happiness.

In fact, when asked for advice from those who are experienced, they will definitely say:

"Get married when you can. Because if you can, the feeling of readiness will surely follow on its own."

In short, don't worry when faced with such a situation. If asked about your turn, give a good answer so that they can also pray. The important thing is to be able to.

By Allah, the Almighty.

Date of Input: 19/12/2025 | Updated: 19/12/2025 | asmunir